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Flying with Toddlers and Small Children: Tips for a Smooth Journey


Take a look at the common elements in the photos. You'll notice the iPad and kids' headphones, a selection of stuffed animals, cozy clothing, pearls (that's her signature style), crocs, snacks, and a trusty sippy cup. To purchase any of these items, please visit my amazon affiliate link: https://linktr.ee/expatfamilyexploring


So, picture this: You're gearing up for a plane journey with your little one and the thought alone sends shivers down your spine. Flying with a toddler can be a real anxiety-inducer for many, but trust me, I've been there. I've circled the globe about six times in the last two years with kids of different ages, and I'm here to share the real deal on flying with young children. No sugar-coating here. I won't promise you a flawless trip, but I'll give you a solid starting point. If you're prepared and keep your expectations in check, you'll be just fine.


Packing List for the Flight: Now, let's break down that essential packing list for a smoother flight with your little one:

  • Snacks THEY Like: This one's a game-changer. Forget about balanced diets – the key is keeping your child happy during the flight.

  • Water Bottle or Sippy Cup they can independently operate: No paper cups or twist caps; these can be a real pain in the middle of a flight.

  • Comfort Items: Don't forget their beloved toy or "lovie," especially for overnight flights. Toss in a few small toys to keep things interesting.

  • Entertainment (with Headphones): That iPad they rarely get to play with? It's your secret weapon. But remember to pack those kid-sized headphones – your fellow passengers will thank you.

  • Novel Toys: Throw in something fresh and captivating, something your child can play with solo. Sticky notes, finger puppets, or stacking cups – they work wonders.

  • Change of Clothes (x3): Trust me, this one's a lifesaver. You'll be grateful when you dodge a massive mess mid-flight.

  • Milk and Formula: Quick reminder: airplanes don't stock milk. If your child needs it, pack small non-refrigerated cartons. And if you're dealing with formula or breastfeeding, you're the official supplier; there's no secret in-flight store.


Specifically for Overnight Flights: Now, let's talk overnight flights. There are some extra considerations here:

  • Pajamas: It's a smart move to switch your kiddo into comfy pajamas before the flight or after dinner service. Try to stick to your home routine as closely as possible.

  • Sleep Expectations: While you can't expect your child to doze off like a pro, be aware that everyone around you is getting ready for some shut-eye.

  • Comfort: If you're flying in economy, consider getting the Stokke bed box or even an inflatable foot cushion for your child's seat. Dangly feet = Wiggly kid. However, avoid purchasing anything that hangs off the seat in front of you, like foot hammocks, as they can be quite disruptive to the person in front of you.


Behavior Management: Flying with kids means you've got to be prepared for the unexpected:

  • Normal Kid Noises: Relax, folks! Normal kid noises are perfectly okay. But if your little one is in full meltdown mode, get up and about, offer fresh distractions (think of those toys you packed), and dole out plenty of cuddles.

  • Disruptive Behaviors: If your child's actions are irking someone else, acknowledge it. It's an opportunity to explain to your child why certain behaviors are a no-go and to teach your child some empathy.

  • Parental Responsibility: Please, don't let your child run wild while you tune out and catch up on your in-flight entertainment. Other passengers and the flight crew shouldn't have to deal with your kid's antics.


For Parents: And as for you, the parent, here are some important points to remember:

  • Hands-On Parenting: Flying with kids means you're in it all the way. Make it an exciting adventure, take deep breaths, and keep in mind that this phase is short. Kids pick up on your vibes, so stay positive!

  • Seat Selection: Don't be stingy; always pay for seat selection. You want to sit with your child and avoid high-traffic areas.

In conclusion, flying with young kids might not be a walk in the park, but with some good preparation, a relaxed mindset, and full engagement, it can be an enjoyable experience. Remember, this too shall pass, so make the most of it and have a great time together. If you've got more questions or need some extra advice, don't hesitate to reach out. Happy travels!




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